God: "my book? who said it was my book? what do you think, I faxed it down here? it was written by man. it was interpreted by man. it was abused by man."
Everything in relationships is a matter of degree and trade-off, except love. 第一次是冲动第二次是不甘第三次是妥协——如果世上只有一件事我绝不能放弃那就是爱你前两次关系中更融入normal people的一方作为主导恰恰展现的是不成熟的那一面They are not normal at all; they just try, or rather pretend to be normal. 没有天生的soulmate彼此磨到最舒服的那个点才是真正的开始不是很赞同sadism和newyork两处对detachment和understanding可以有更好的诠释